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WG is so right -- as is your wiser self. Don't Think That Way! You have to train yrself out of that habit. This one is going to work. When in doubt, reread your own (!) post about arguing, when you talked to the other couple and saw that they didn't consider their fights signs of doom but just as temporary obstacles to getting along.

sorry i'm not more articulate, but only one cup of coffee so far today.

I agree. Take your cue from WG, if he isn't freaking out about moving in then neither should you (he is a GUY after all). And he doesn't seem to be hedging his bets. My spouse had his stuff in storage for two years while we tried out cohabitation-- and you guys are ready to sell shit! Deep down you know it's the real thing.


Yeah! Why did you walk into a relationship without thinking about walking down the aisle with him in the first place?

Can't imagine...

Aw -- that's about the sweetest thing I've ever heard. "You can have my stuff..." Another thing that could be going on is every time you give away something you own, you may be afraid you're giving up part of yourself. You know, like your furniture is a metaphor for yourself. Either way, I think you're doing the right thing. You're choosing this relationship, so there's no "giving away" of yourself. (But I'm all for buying NEW things together -- that would be ideal.) Have fun!